Discerning the Sexual Body Language
It is said that gestures can tell a story about what a person is feeling at the moment. Well, I know that when someone is slouching, he or she is likely feeling guilty or lacking confidence. I also know that when the arms are crossed, it is a defensive posture. But I did not know that there were also sexual body languages aside from the usual kind. What I have discovered totally shamed me. That is because I saw the movements, but never really understood what they meant. Well, no wonder I usually end up getting ditched after a few hookups. So, gentlemen, I would like to share with you what I have learned.
Understanding her breathing – Under normal circumstances, a woman’s breathing is calm and peaceful. But when she is aroused, expect it to come out in rapid succession with occasional moans. Mind you, that purring is involuntary due to air being forced out of her vocal cords. If you think she is faking that, then listen to her heart rate. When it increases, then she must be nearing orgasm.
Writhing and grinding – Check whether her toes are curled, or if she is constantly rubbing against you. Heck, in the middle of it all? Yes, during sex and while you are inside her. Sure, that will take a lot of exertion but it will be worth it. You see, if she is grinding and pushing her hips in sync with your movements, then you are doing something good. If she is lying limp, then you will need to change positions and pleasure her in another way.
Arms spread out – In other situations, it can refer to a feeling of total abandon and being free. In bed, it means she is totally enjoying what you are doing. But if her arms are held close to her body or often wound around you, then she might not be enjoying the ride of her life.
Movement of vaginal muscles – Well, you will not be able to peek down there just to see if they are responding to your penetration. That is why you will just have to feel them with your penis. You should experience the contraction and relaxation during climax. If you do not feel it clenching at some point, she may not be having an orgasm just yet. But if vaginal spasms are not happening and she said she just came, then she could be faking it.
Well, the deception part is what saddens me the most. Not being able to see the signs that I have been misled have seriously bruised my ego. But no matter; one blunder does not make me poor in bed, just unschooled in the art of reading the non-verbal cues. But, hey, now that I know better, I can give a girl the night of her life.